Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Solo Travelers Club is this the solution?


Solo not Single not Sad

    Like other Solo Travelers, I look for affordable sea adventures that allow me to travel far and long term.

    Ship travel allows a quick visit to sample countries I might like to return to for a longer visit.

    Not all mature travelers are adventurous and so far, it has been a very safe way to explore on my own.     With the image of reruns of the Love Boat, I began sea travel with a 22 day trip, the longer the better!

Searching for affordable sailings is a time consuming job checking solo pricing for ever y sailing that is of interest.         I hope the Solo Travelers Club from Online Vacation Center will offer multiple sailing a year to travel around the world.... from an email today*


"Welcome to the Solo Travelers Club!
We thought you might be interested in the Solo Travelers Club. We've created a new program dedicated to helping you find the best destinations for traveling independently, give you tips and tricks on safely making your way, and highlight any special solo rates we've been able to arrange with our partners.

Our new newsletter will regularly alert you to these offers so you don't ever have to miss out on a trip!
River Cruising with Uniworld
Uniworld cruises are great choices because they offer an intimate, small-ship experience along with a very high level of luxury. And best of all, they are truly all-inclusive. All river cruises include:
  • All Gratuities (onboard and onshore)
  • Onboard Meals
  • Unlimited Beverages (fine wine, beer & spirits included)
  • Airport Transfers
  • Shore Excursions
  • Internet & Wi-Fi Access Onboard
Even better for solo travellers, Uniworld is offering waived single supplements on select European cruises. Solo rates start from just $2399!
Check out our "Deals for Solo Travelers" section to learn more about these rates, and feel free to give us a call if you have any questions at: 800-787-1871. "*



ONLINE VACATION CENTER | 1801 NW 66TH AVENUE | SUITE 102 |
PLANTATION, FL 33313-4571

*See the full story here.
http://www.onlinevacationcenter.com/newsletter/030613m.cfm

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Solo Supplements: article by S. Rosenbloom


Thank you Stephnie Rosenbloom for this great article on NO SOLO SUPPLEMENTS!
 
Of course I have added some of my opinions!
How many trips would you take without a Solo Supplement?


Singled out for the single supplement

By Stephanie Rosenbloom / New York Times News Service
Published: March 10. 2013 4:00AM PST
Single supplement.
These two words strike dread — not to mention resentment — in the heart of a solo traveler. Consider for a moment the cost of a superior ocean-view room on a Royal Caribbean International seven-night Alaska cruise. For two adults, it’s $1,539 each. For a single traveler, the cost is $2,843 — an additional $1,304.

Single supplement? Or single penalty?
Royal Caribbean is by no means alone. Supplements are a widespread industry practice in both the cruise and packaged tour industries. Travel companies say that these surcharges (which are generally anywhere from 10 to 100 percent or more of the standard rate) are justified because most accommodations, whether in a hotel or on a ship, are priced for double occupancy.
“To sell that stateroom to only one person," said H.J. Harrison Liu, a spokesman for Royal Caribbean, “that wouldn’t necessarily make business sense for us."

Solo travelers, as one might imagine, tend to have a different view of supplements.
“It’s the bane of the single person’s travel existence," said Bella DePaulo, a visiting professor of psychology at the University of California, Santa Barbara, who studies what she calls “singlism," or the ways in which single people are stereotyped and discriminated against (it’s also the name of her most recent book).

One experienced solo traveler from New York, Arlene Rosenberg, decried single supplements and in an email asked me how to skirt them.  “I’m really missing out on a lot of travel opportunities because of this," she said.       so VERY true!
Supplements have been around for decades, but with each year they become more out of sync with the nation’s demographics as the United States grows increasingly single. According to figures released last year by the Census Bureau, there were 102 million unmarried people 18 and older in America in 2011 — more than 44 percent of adult residents. That’s up from 92 million in 2006, which was 42 percent of residents 18 and older. It won’t be long before half of the country is unmarried.  3 or 4 trips instead of 1 a year, IF YOU STOPPED THIS SOLO POLICY

Of course, many unmarried people live with a partner, so not all of them are traveling solo; yet married people aren’t all traveling in pairs either. About 12 percent of U.S. adults, married or unmarried, plan to travel solo this year, up significantly from 7 percent last year, according to the American Express Spending & Saving Tracker. And if companies make it more affordable for people to travel on their own — by dropping supplements and offering deals to solo travelers the way they offer deals to couples and families — that number might climb even higher.

A number of tour companies — including Rick Steves’ Europe, Backroads and G Adventures — attempt to take the sting out of supplements by offering a halfway measure: They will waive the supplement if solo travelers agree to be matched with a roommate. In some cases, if the travel company cannot find you a roommate, you get the room to yourself. Singles travel companies like AllSinglestravel.com offer roommate matching with that guarantee. No matter what, be sure to read the fine print. For instance, SinglesCruise.com notes that it “accepts no responsibility for roommate matching incompatibility such as sleep patterns, snoring, noise or age differences."     Those who want to select their own cruise buddy can try sites like CruiseMates.com, which has a message board where users can post roommate requests.   Why would I pay thousands of dollars to sleep with a stranger?

It’s nice to have these options, but for many solo travelers, roommates are something they left behind in college — and they want to keep it that way. The reasons for that range from the obvious inconvenience of rooming with a stranger to a more profound idea that DePaulo refers to as “single at heart." It’s the notion that some people are single not because they can’t find a partner but because, as she puts it, “single is who they are" and “how they live their most authentic life."
These are people who want “to regulate their own space and time" — all of which is at odds with having a roommate when on vacation, let alone one they don’t know.

DePaulo thinks charging single supplements is ultimately a silly business decision. If travel companies drop the surcharges, they might lose money in the short term, but in the long run they would gain the loyalty of millions of solo travelers.

As it turns out, there are a handful of companies that in the past few years have been willing to do just that by waiving some supplement fees (not just lowering them) and by dedicating a portion of their websites to solo travel. In a perfect world, these companies would do away with supplements entirely. But for now, consider this the first of what I hope will be a growing list of solo-friendly cruise lines and tour companies. Intrepid solo travelers, this one’s for you.
Cruises

• Avalon Waterways: One way to avoid single supplements on cruises is to book far in advance, a month or so before New Year’s Day or shortly after. For travelers who book their 2013 cruises early, this river and small-ship cruise line dropped the single supplement on a number of departures in Europe, including Magnificent Europe from Budapest to Amsterdam (15 days starting at $4,499 for a single during a recent search) and Paris to Normandy’s Landing Beaches (eight days starting at $2,849). Information: Avalonwaterways.com.

• Grand Circle Cruise Line: Over the past few years this company, which caters to baby boomers, has had an increase in the number of solo travelers (particularly women), prompting it to address their needs. That meant training guides on how to make solo travelers feel included in all activities, as well as doing away with single supplements on its new small-ship cruises to Myanmar, the French and Italian Rivieras, Turkey and Greece. (One of those new tours, the 15-day Rivieras: France, Italy & the Isles, begins at $3,895.) There are no single supplements for add-on trips to nearby cities before or after any 2013 cruise either. Why, there is even a “solo traveler challenge" guaranteeing that “you cannot find a lower price for a solo traveler on any comparable international trip for Americans." If you do, Grand Circle will match that price and deduct $500 from the cost of your vacation. Information: www.gct.com.

• International Expeditions: In response to the growing number of solo travelers interested in its eco-travel trips, this nature company has waived supplement fees on select cabins on all of its 2013 Amazon (from $3,898 until July and $4,398 after) and Galapagos (from $5,098) small-ship cruises. Information: ietravel.com.

• Norwegian Cruise Line: Norwegian was voted best cruise line for solo travelers last year by readers of Porthole Cruise Magazine. Its Epic has 128 studio staterooms designed specifically for solo travelers. The studios (about 100 square feet) also include entry to the Studio Lounge, a shared key-card-access-only area with a bar and television screens. And thanks to increased demand, there is more to come: Two new ships, the Breakaway and the Getaway, will also have solo-friendly cabins and lounges. The cabins will be added to the line’s Pride of America ship too. Information: ncl.com.

• Vacations to Go: This travel agency offers discounted single supplements for an array of cruise lines like Silversea, Crystal and Paul Gauguin. To find solo travel deals, visit Vacationstogo.com (albeit not the easiest site to navigate) and select “singles discounts" from the column on the left side of the page. That will bring up a list of cruises from various lines along with their single supplements (some have no supplements). A division of Vacations to Go, Amariver cruises.com might also be worth checking out from time to time. For example, the single supplement on some Mekong River itineraries has been waived for travelers who book by March 31. Another division of Vacations to Go, Uniworld.com, is one of the oldest river cruise lines, and it has waived single supplements on several itineraries, which on a recent search included Paris and Normandy (10 days starting at $3,499) and Venice and the Po River (eight days starting at $3,199). Information: vacationstogo.com.
Tours

• Abercrombie & Kent: “Solo savings," a nascent category of departures to popular destinations such as Egypt, Kenya and Tanzania with this luxury tour company either have no single supplement or are reduced by up to 75 percent. For instance, a recent search turned up 25 percent off the single supplement for a 10-day Egypt and the Nile tour in March, making the starting price $1,575, down from $2,100. Information: abercrombiekent.com.

• Overseas Adventure Travel: Owned by Grand Circle Corporation (the parent company of Grand Circle Cruise Line), this company has no single supplements for any land or small-ship adventures, including the land tour Ultimate Africa: Botswana, Zambia & Zimbabwe Safari (from $5,820) and Ancient Kingdoms: Thailand, Laos, Vietnam & Cambodia (from $3,995). Plus, it has the same “solo traveler challenge" guarantee as Grand Circle Cruise Line (see above). Information: oattravel.com.

• Tauck: Founded in 1925, this tour company has dropped the single supplement from Category 1 cabins on all of its 2013 European river cruises, like the 12-day Blue Danube tour, from $4,490. And on certain land tours in Asia, Latin America and Europe, the company offers “solo traveler savings," such as $600 off the regular rates of its popular India tour — but the trip still costs solo travelers a few thousand dollars more. Tauck does get points for its website, which has a solo traveler forum where you can get answers to questions like “Would I feel comfortable by myself?" Information: tauck.com.

A last bit of advice: Think globally. To avoid supplements and roommates, consider traveling with a company based overseas, like Mercury Direct in London, which has no single supplements for tours of spots as varied as Sri Lanka, Cyprus and Egypt. And the Majestic Line, a U.K.-based cruise company, reserves two cabins for solo travelers on each of its small ships at no additional cost. Information: mercury-direct.co.uk and themajesticline.co.uk.
 






Tuesday, March 5, 2013

NO SOLO SUPPLEMENT: see Ports and Bows post

Thanks to a post by http://o.canada.com/discussions/ports-and-bows/ Ports and Bows today, they posted an article by
Published: March 4, 2013, 3:00 am
Updated: 4 days ago

There is another NO SOLO SUPPLEMENT announcement....... Perhaps this industry has finally recognized there is an entire market they are overcharging?
Thanks to Mr Reimer and Ports and Bows for sharing this.


While all cruise lines, especially the river ones, have been reporting bookings above normal for the year, there are still some sales to be had.
Avalon Waterways announced it’s lifting the single supplement on 12 sailings in Europe between April and October. The number would indicate Avalon has a limited cabins to offer on all 12 cruises.
“The sale represents a saving of up to $4,304,” says Avalon’s Stéphanie Bishop. “Perfect for solo travelers, or two friends who love the space and privacy of their own cabins.”
Plus, with a maximum of just 170 passengers, Avalon ships are a wonderful way to make new friends.
The river way to get to Paris
The river way to get to Paris
The sailings comprise a choice of itineraries from the 8-day Paris to Normandy’s Landing Beaches to the 15-day Magnificent Europe from Budapest to Amsterdam. Prices for the cruises start at $3,089.
Booking must be made by April 23.
Still with Avalon…
To go along with the launch of two new all-suite ships this year, three more new ships are due to arrive next year. Hitting the rivers of Europe in 2014 will be the Avalon Poetry II, the Illumination, and the Impression.
This spring, Avalon will launch the Artistry II in April and the Expression in May.
The view from a Suite Ships stateroom
The view from a Suite Ships stateroom
Each room on all eight Suite Ships features a French balcony providing travellers with a combination of the largest windows available and a sliding glass door that opens a full seven feet. In addition, I found a spacious seating area at the window delivers that balcony feel.
The design allows for the bed to face the window. That’s very cool when it’s warm (no, that’s not a contradiction!). Open the window and enjoy breakfast in bed. The main suites on the all suite ships are the Panorama Suites at 200 square feet. The Royal Suite is the largest at 300 square feet.
By next spring, eight ships in Avalon’s fleet will be all-suite.


Saturday, March 2, 2013

NO SOLO SUPPLEMENT Italy: Classic Car Tour


                   NO SOLO SUPPLEMENT

Yle with Yltour in Puglia offers another wonderful event for independent travelers who want
a unique experience!
      



CLASSIC CAR EXPERIENCE IN PUGLIA

May 1 - 6, 2013            
YLTOUR opens its 2013 season with an exclusive road experience from May 1 – 6 , 2013
in the beautiful Salento area, Italy.
This is your chance to explore the area on board  on of these magnificent cars along with luxury catering and accommodation. The car will have a driver.

YLTOUR offers you, your friends and customers the finest classic car experience in Puglia: a taste of luxury, wine tasting and gourmet dining, a culinary experience, a city tour, visits to local vineyards and five star hotels.
 We will accompany you on selected dream routes, with the wind in your hair while living
la dolce vita lifestyle in the lovely Salento area. 
Cost: € 1.600,00 per person no single supplement and include the following: 
Promotional price until March 10, 2013  E 1.500.00

- accommodation in 4 and 5 stars stylish hotels
- breakfast, lunch and dinner
- a gala dinner
- rally plates and souvenir plaque
- comprehensive road book with daily detailed route notes and timed itineraries
- 1 cooking class
- 1 city tour
- 1 wine tasting + meal in a winery    
- services of a Tour director throughout the tour
- transportation from/to Bari and Brindisi airport
- all ground transportation

All photos courtesy of Yltour and may NOT be the actual cars used for the tour 
Not included are the following:
Airfare and travel insurance
YLTOUR (www.yltourcongressi.com)  can make your plane and train reservations as well.
Find more on: info@yltourcongressi.com (Yle) or  leelaurino@eartlink.net (Lee)

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

No Solo Supplement: Italy, photo evenet




--                               [Calling all Photographers:

                         A Creative Break in Puglia, Italy



Take a photography holiday in Puglia and capture the images of our traditional villages and scenic roads off the tourist trail, vineyards, old palaces, farmers on their estates, seaside villages, the countryside and the people of this part of Italy that is less traveled.

Experienced photographers and non-professional photographers will find Puglia an incredible place.  Puglia has spectacular landscapes and natural light, not to mention the beauty of old farmhouses and country houses with their Mediterranean colors (in the Salento style), baroque details and local villagers, pizzica dancers, intimate details and so much more.   

Become a photographer and capture the genuine beauty of Puglia through its most hidden and unconventional landscapes and settings.    Our local experts will enable you to take unique pictures and meet inspiring local people: they will concentrate on your particular interests. Prior to your visit we will ask questions to better understand your photo style and expectations, in order to provide you with the very best settings. Each holiday is custom tailored with dedication and focuses on photography.     Yltour knows the best locations but also restaurants where you can taste the delicious local food and wine.


<!--[if !vml]-->Our accommodations are off the beaten-path places:  dimore (old houses), farmhouses, villas fully equipped.  We use an air conditioned van or private cars to arrive at our shooting locations and               meals are taken in top places. 
Partners, who are not photographers, can join other interesting activities:   cooking classes, a wine tour, a bike tour or simply relax by.
Discover and capture the Puglia we love.
This unique opportunity is limited to small groups to insure individual attention.

 A minimum number of four bookings are required to run this tour.
                                                                                                           
Cost:   1,500 euros       Special price for bookings prior to March    30, 2013.

Creative Break Includes:
•             7 nights in exclusive properties, breakfast included
•             5 lunches with wine: at local trattorias and private family farmhouses
•             5 dinners with wine
•             2 cooking classes
•             2 wine tastings at top producers and 1 vineyard tour
•             olive farm visit with olive oil tasting and tour of the olive groves
•             a special visit to a private farm with a demonstration on the making of ricotta, a cheese tasting
•             visit to an open air market
•             photo tour of historic Lecce, Gallipoli, Otranto, Itria Valley
•             morning photography unique experiences
•             air-conditioned deluxe motor coach
•             a few surprises, as the occasion allows

Not included:
•             airfare
•             meals not listed on the itinerary                                                                     
•             optional trip insurance
•             items of a personal nature, laundry, telephone charges
•             passport fees
   
This tour is available in June and November
Email us: info@yltourcongressi.com     ask for promo price listed on solomaturetravel.com                                                                               


Turn your next vacation in to a travel adventure.....



                                                 




Friday, February 22, 2013

Rome Solo over Christmass


5 or my 15  Impressions from my Solo Christmas trip to Rome:    part of a guest post I did for BrowsingRome.com

Although I travel solo to Italy every year and try to stay as long as possible I have never been Home To Italy during the winter.   Usually by November I head back to the southern part of the USA to wait out the ice and cold across the Northern Hemisphere.
My December trip was devoted entirely to finding what xmas traditions Italians practice that Italian Americans also observe.    Therefore my visit did not include museums this year or monuments but rather the seasonal foods, street festivals and markets where Italians were enjoying the holidays. 

This theme proved to be perfect.     It was easy to do a visual inspection of holiday decorations as I progressed from Zurich to Como and down to Rome, but also the tourists were minimal, locals were more available to chat and the topic of Natale was universal to all.   
Rome Solo"

1.      Street lighting:    In every town and city I visited the streets were blazing with Christmas lights.  No plastic snowmen, candy canes or Rudolf but street after street had displays of white lights.  Each street was different.   Some designs, such as the ‘jellyfish look’ were very unique.   I could not find anyone to ask if each neighborhood decides what lights they used nor do I think that question ever came up!
2.       The Christmas Markets

I left the USA with a list of markets that would be featured in each of the towns I planned to visit.

Apparently an outside Christmas market can be found in most Italian towns.   In Florence it was a German market, in Prato they had a Chocolate fair.   Rome has a huge market in Piazza Narvone that goes on for weeks.   I visited several times to try to see everything.
In addition to the stands offering sweets and snacks the popular items were something like an over sized donut and crepes filled with Nutella.    I enjoyed watching children eating cotton candy for the first time and learning how to eat it.   

              
Since an outdoor market is a perfect location for a solo traveler to spend time, observe, interact and not become the object of everyone’s attention I found lots to keep me interested and except for the biting cold, would have stayed longer.

                                                                                                       

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Rome: Art on the streest of Rome


"The act of painting is catching a fleeting moment in time, never to be repeated."   Kelly Medford

Kelly Medford - Biography


 
I’m a young painter, and until recently only painted landscapes. Last year I completed a 100 day project to challenge and grow myself and my work, to explore what it is I have to say in paint. I also traveled to Alaska, Florida, South Carolina and several other places painting before moving to Rome, Italy this fall.



The warm light of Rome and it's vast layers of history compel me to carry my easel with me everywhere I go. I stop to paint the light hitting a building, a square or the remnants of a Roman aqueduct running through busy traffic. The possibilities are endless and I'm not only excited, but honored to have the opportunity to paint the streets and life of Rome.



Thank you for your interest in my work and for taking the time to visit the site.



 I asked Kelly this week, how many people in Rome stop and stare or chat with her while she paints.  

 "It depends where I am. In the more residential areas of the city sometimes people just look but don't dare stop to talk and other times people want to talk a lot, I never know what's going to happen, that's definitely post of the fun and adventure of painting out in the street. Yesterday while painting the red house no one stopped to talk, but people really stared, I just get used to it, it's fun!"


 

Monday, February 18, 2013

Italy for Solo Travelers


Do you love to travel?

Is Italy one of your favorite destinations?

Interested in being more than a tourist?

 

Think about joining one of these adventures while traveling in Italy....  meet Kelly Medford, American artist living in Rome.

I met Kelly on my December trip to Rome and she graciously agreed to let me follow her while she painted  in the  streets of Rome.  Thanks to a post by BrowrowsingRome.com http://www.browsingrome.com/    I learned that Kelly was doing a 120 project:   a painting a day.  
Thinking, if she can paint an entire picture in ONE day, I can do a blog a day on my 30 day trip.
Well that didn't happen and I am still writing about the adventures I had on my Solo Christmas trip to Italy.....

Kelly  just sent me a list of all the workshops she will be doing this year.    Reading the list brings out the artist in me even though I only express myself with photos......I think a workshop with Kelly would make a difference.     Below is a brief outline on events a Solo Traveler will enjoy.    One of the BEST talents Kelly possesses is her open mind.   She had never met me before, nor do I think she knew I was twice her age but she treated me as a 'real person' and shared her idea and philosopy on paining in Rome.   She was kind to answer the endless questions a non resident asks without laughing or judgins.     Thank you Kelly.

It shall be difficult to selct which class to take.......



Art of the Painted Sketch: August 21-28, 2013
Umbria, Italy


Join us for a week of sun, wine, Italian home cooking and painting in a in a restored villa tucked away in the wooded hills of Umbria.

In this intimate and relaxed setting you will gain a new ease and confidence in capturing  the light and feel of a place by learning the Art of the Painted Sketch

Your instructor, an American painter who has been living and painting in Italy for the past 9 years, will guide you effortlessly through the process.

Not just for painters, this setting is the perfect getaway for non painting partners.       Complete with swimming pool, 80 acres of grounds and close to several small Italian villages, this is the perfect chance to relax and enjoy an authentic Italian holiday.

 Details:

• Cost for single participant in private room is £985 or $1,530.
• A non-refundable deposit of 25% is required upon registration with full payment due June 26
• All art materials, meals, airport transfers and local transport during the course is included in your tuition/ just bring yourself and be ready to relax and paint!
    *Cancellation policy details can be found by clicking here
To learn more about our hosts at Arte Umbria go to www.arteumbria.com

To learn more about your instructor Kelly Medford click here
To register and join us  click here

The Light and Life of Venice: October 12-20, 2013
Venice, Italy
 

Spend 10 days in Italy's most magical and mysterious floating city, Venice. We will stalk the streets, alleys and canals with our easels to capture the most intimate and fleeting views of the city.

Venice is full of light, color, gondolas, open piazzas and intimate hidden places. To capture them in paint is exciting, fun and the chance of a lifetime.

This workshop will be filled with adventure, exploration and give you a new confidence to capture the life around you quickly en plein air.
You will learn to capture fleeting light quickly in paint and have a wide range of completed paintings or studies that you can work from and take back to the studio. This experience, through guided instruction, will grow your speed and confidence no matter your skill level.

With 10 days we will have time to enjoy  the local wine, food and scenery as well as paint in 2 daily sessions with time for breaks. We will also have a day painting in the unique local fisherman's Burano island to capture local life there.

All levels and mediums are encouraged to join us as well as non painting partners. We will be staying as locals in furnished apartments in the heart of the city.

Working as a team, Helen Beacham will be instructing all levels in both drawing and watercolors, while Kelly will be working with painters in oil and acrylics.

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Solo Travelers: would you be interested in a creative break

CREATIVE BREAKS:

 

If you enjoy traveling, learning, meeting the locals and immersing yourself in a culture than you need to know about a special series of programs offered by yltour.com in Italy!

 

Yle Sambati will be offering a great assortment of 'adventures' that solo travelers can enjoy.

 

Check back soon to hear about her photography, cooking or wine events! 

 

yltourconressi.com   

Monday, February 4, 2013

Worry about traveling solo?



I have traveled solo for the past 15+ years from necessity and then from the sheer joy of doing whatever I wish.

Many other solo travelers write about adventures they take in countries I have to search a map to find.  I stopped reading many of their posts and books since it only made me think I was too timid, shy and had no sense of adventure on the trips I undertake.

But I just read the very sad tale of a solo traveler to Turkey.
American's death in Turkey puts spotlight on solo travel


As countries are crossed off my list of places to visit, because of wars, political unrest or their attitude towards woman, must I now cross Turkey off the list too?

Last year I read about a company in the USA that (for a fee) would keep track of you when you are traveling on a date or just off on your own.    Unfortunately they do not work outside the USA.

What precautions do you take when you solo travel?     Telling your hotel where you are going is useless.   I have left notes in my room but in many countries the staff does not read English.  
Does the American consulate have a system to track us?   They wouldn't let me the embassy in Rome or the consulate in Florence,  and I believe my taxes pay the rent on those buildings.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

I didnt recongnize you until you smiled...

This was the strange comment I received at the Microsoft store in Atlanta, Ga
I have the one year training program and I am SURE they do not expect clients to come every week.

Well they were in for a surprise when I signed on.....

I am on first name basis with most of the staff but a few are really tired of working with me....

Too bad.......

But this week while waiting for a training session,   I was surprised when one of the staff who I had spoken with about Italy (another Italian American I have met)   said " I didn't recognize you until you smiled".     It occurred to me that now that I have reached the age of 'invisibility' I don't make the effort to stand out.   

And how  strange because almost 24/7 I am happier than I have every been.  Happier than when I made enough money to 'buy things' to make me happy.   Life is very strange.

But becoming invisible was one of the big surprises.     Unless you are strange, forceful or wear something outlandish   a 'mature' person can travel through the mall, the grocery store or even on a busy street and NEVER BE NOTICED......

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Solo Traveler at the weekend market



Focusing on Home to Italy I often neglect to share how I solo travel in Italy 30 days or more every year when possible.

photo is from the website listed below

And every year I learn more about the places I as a solo traveler can spend the day or a few hours and blend into the crowd. 

Weekend markets are a GREAT place to meet or just watch the residents of a town or city.  There is so much to be learned from the items they sell at antique, food or even our equivalent to a garage sale.     Along with a trip to the super mercato I often have some understanding of day to day life or at least a list of questions to try to answer before I leave.


Lesley who has co owns Villa Magnolia  Puglia  
http://www.villamagnoliaitaly.com,  mentioned that she visits a market EVERY week and shared a wonderful web site with me that lists ALL the markets throughout Italy!    I am in heaven.   http://www.lamescolanza.com/mercatini/puglia.htm.  
Before my next trip Home to Italy, I will print out a list of all the markets in the towns I plan to visit.


Leslie also tells me how to negotiate in Italy:

"Each and every Sunday an Antique Market is held somewhere in Puglia .  We go to the Ostuni Market, the Martina Franca Market and  the Market near Lecce held on the last Sunday of each month.  It is great fun to go to these markets...we have purchased many items for Villa Magnolia eg; rugs, lamps, mirrors, vases, tapestries, furniture &  more.
Obviously when you are interested in an Item never let the seller know, just offer half the asking price and watch his reaction, walk away then return later with an offer slightly higher, in Italy the art of bartering is fun and the perfect place to do this is at markets. All furniture and accessories inside Villa Magnolia are authentic Italian, most of which date back to 1800's."



Inside and outside Villa Magnolia I can see in her on line photos some of the treasures she has found in those markets.